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Looking after me...

I spend a lot of my time trying to help others feel better or hoping I can miraculously change their thoughts and feelings on life.
But I can't, I am not them and I am not walking in their shoes. I don't know why they are feeling the way they do and I don't know how to help. As much as I try to understand I never will.
So in losing myself through trying to focus on others I've learned that I need to focus on me just now. I need to be happy too and I need to make myself feel better.
I am constantly allowing other people's thoughts and feelings to affect mine and selfishly I won't allow it now. I need to take a step back and be there but not put other people's weight on my shoulders. 
We can get wrapped up with things that are happening to our loved ones or friends and sometimes we forget about our own happiness. 
Still be there but don't think that you can make miracles happen we are all responsible for our own happiness and we need to make sure we do.
xxx

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